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Being angry at loved ones

People are the most angry at their loved ones. Sometimes, you wonder why your family is always so polite to strangers, while so frustrated at home.

I’ve always been unhappy about this fact, but as I grow up I’ve realized that I can’t seem to escape it either. I would get very angry at my sister for not having good habits to keep her eyes, teeth, and sleeping schedule healthy. Frankly if other people decided to eat candy and not brush their teeth, I wouldn’t say anything, or might mention in passing, not because I’m more polite to the outside, but because I don’t really care about them as much. In the end, the more love and care is involved, the higher the stake involved; that means more hurt when you see that things don’t go as well as they could. And that can cause you to become more angry. And that sucks, for everyone.

I really apologize if you fell victim to me being angry. Sure, I can make the excuse of it’s because I care (and it really is because I care :) ), but really I think I need to work on not doing this. Anyone has had similar experiences?

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